Merry Xmas and Happy New Year to all :))

Apology to those who are not appeared in this tree (cuz limited pics applied)..but it really dedicated to all..

Best wishes...

Can u be strong like this???

Inspired self appraisal...

A BEAUTIFUL STORY

A little boy went to a telephone booth which was at the cash counter of a store and dialed a number.
The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation:

Boy : "Lady, Can you give me the job of cutting your lawn?
Woman : (at the other end of the phone line) "I already have someone to cut my lawn."
Boy : "Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price than the person who cuts your lawn now."
Woman : I'm very satisfied with the person who is presently cutting my lawn.
Boy : (with more perseverance) "Lady, I'll even sweep the floor and the stairs of your house for free.
Woman : No, thank you.

With a smile on his face, the little boy replaced the receiver. The store-owner, who was listening to all this, walked over to the boy.

Store Owner : "Son... I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit and would like to offer you a job."
Boy : "No thanks,
Store Owner : But you were really pleading for one.
Boy : No Sir, I was just checking my performance at the job I already have. I am the one who is working for that lady I was talking to!"

This is called

"Self Appraisal"  

The difference between dream and aim, 
Dream requires Soundless sleep to see

Whereas Aim Requires Sleepless Efforts to Achieve...
Credit is given to Waruna's fwd mail

Post-Lantern Festival

Not able to post sth on Lantern Festival Day...Just a bit of writing in my dear diary..Hence, here a Post-lantern festival writing..hehe..

Haven't properly eaten any moon cake yet...hehe,,just a tiny piece of picky bite...

Have faithful wish to the full moon...My wishes would be granted...right????? Make wishes wishes wishes....to becoming true!!!!

Not to confuse i wish to have this bag???? well..if i happen to have one, m glad ...

yet what is written on the bag is more special,,isn't it??

Keep wishing and wishing....and believing....for your dream to come TRUE!!!

Cheer ME up

Cheer up tech tov TT/TD euy....

Guai guai de!!!

JULY - Wish Me GOOD LUCK GOOD FORTUNE

GOOD LUCK + GOOD FORTUNE

TO ME

TO MY BELOVED FAMILY

TO MY DEAR FRIENDS
TO MY ACQUAINTANCE

TO ALL ...

The Art of Shameless Self-Promotion

"This is a full article I've read....Very Interesting and Hardly put into Practice? Can u do it?

by Nathan Hangen

I’ve found it just doesn’t pay to crow too much about what I’ve accomplished.

Sure, I celebrate when things go well. But I’ve found that talking too much about my achievements leads not only to criticism, but to disappointment.

There’s always going to be someone who’s done more or worked harder. And until they carve my name into the side of the moon, I see no reason in puffing myself up. The minute you get a big head is the same minute that reality smacks you and you realize that you aren’t as cool as you think you are.

So self-adulation is something I try to stay away from. But self promotion? That’s a whole different story.


If you take a look at the most successful (or talked about) people in any field, you’ll almost always see someone incredibly talented in the art of self-promotion.

Robert Kiyosaki, author of the Rich Dad Poor Dad books, mentioned at one point that he’s a “bestselling author” and not a “best-writing author.” Dean Karnazes, known as “The Ultramarathon Man,” is not the best athlete in his field, but he is by far the best at self-promotion.

So what’s the difference?

The reason that self-promotion works and self-adulation doesn’t is because self-promotion is the art of spreading ideas, concepts, and a greater vision. Self-adulation is just the promotion of accomplishments, deeds that have already been done.

When you promote ideas, you give people something to cheer for. You give people a cause to support. People, in many ways, are selfish. They promote the things that make them feel good. Your accomplishments aren’t likely to make them feel good, but your ideas do.

Your ideas might inspire hope, thought, or action . . . but as a general rule, good ideas inspire something.

People promote Chris Brogan because he makes them feel good. His ideas inspire thought and that warm fuzzy feeling we all get when we make a sincere connection.

On the other hand, you and I aren’t going around bragging about how many books he’s sold or how many speeches he’s given. We don’t care about that because it’s the ideas that inspire . . . not the achievements.

How to create a self-promotion platform

1. The first step is to be confident. If you aren’t inspired by your actions or ideas, no one else will be either.

Look at Muhammad Ali, one of the greatest self-promoters in history. We loved him not just because he truly was “the greatest,” but also for his integrity and the boldness of his ideas.

If you think Ali’s success was only about his athletic ability, compare your feelings about Ali to your feelings about Mike Tyson. Tyson’s accomplishments were magnificent, but he never communicated a greater vision that made us cheer.

2. The next step is to start spreading your ideas. You can’t be wishy washy . . . you have to stand for something.

Make your vision as clear and as concise as possible. Brand yourself and your ideas as unique. (Remember, although few ideas are genuinely unique, your expression can be.) Seth Godin does this exceptionally well.

3. Once you have a platform, start your campaign. Use strong, descriptive language when explaining your ideas and plan of action. Build a tight and loyal community that believes in you, then inspire and empower them to take action.

Make it cool to be a fan, like Gary Vee did with his Vaynernation wristbands or like Lance Armstrong did with his yellow bracelets. Having a symbolic identifier like this is extremely powerful.

4. Lastly, don’t be afraid to talk about your ideas and spread the message. Just remember that it’s not about your world . . . it’s about how others can fit into it.

Creating buzz is essential, so reach out to power brokers and tell them why they should promote you. If they won’t, create power brokers from within. Build others up until they have the power to build you up. This last part is something that Oprah excels at, and it’s how she’s built a billion-dollar empire.

Your ideas need you

If you implement this plan successfully, you’ll probably take some flak. People might label you over-confident or cocky.

That’s good. Define yourself in such a way that people either love you or hate you.

There are fans out there for every self-promoter. Your task is to find them. That, and to make it easy for them to bring a friend.

Your ideas need you. If you have a vision, don’t let anyone stand in your way.

I know it sounds a bit “out there,” but I firmly believe that ideas are living things. They need you to get over your self-adulation, to get out there, and to fight for them. Are you ready?

About the Author: Nathan Hangen is the co-founder of Beyond Blogging, a resource that draws on some of the web’s most successful bloggers to tell you the truth about what it takes to get to their level. He writes about social entrepreneurship at NathanHangen.com.

B-ing BaD

Getting worse now....Y can't i start a fresh morning with a big smile?

Please cheer yaself up and people around u as well.

Gomen ne!!! aisheteru.

Cont'd fr 333- Prayer

我對佛說 : 讓我所有朋友永遠健康快樂 ~!
I told Buddha: Let all my friends be healthy and happy forever...!
佛說 : 只能四天 ~!
Buddha said: But for 4 days only....!
我說 : 好 , 春天、夏天、秋天、冬天。
I said: Yes, let them be a Spring Day, Summer Day, Autumn Day, and Winter Day.
佛說 : 三天。
Buddha said: 3 days.
我說 : 好 , 昨天、今天、明天。
I said: Yes, Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow.
佛說 : 不行 , 兩天。 !
Buddha said: No, 2 days!
我說 : 好 , 白天、黑天。
I said: Yes, a Bright Day (Daytime) and Dark Day (Night-time) .
佛說 : 不行 , 就一天 ~!
Buddha said: No, just 1 day!
我說 : 好 ~!
I said: Yes!
佛茫然問到 : 哪一天？
Buddha asked: Which day?
我說 : 在我所有朋友活著的每一天 ~! ?
I said: Every Day in the living years of all my friends!
佛笑了 …… 說 : 以後你所有朋友將天天健康快樂 ~
Buddha laughed, and said: All your friends will be healthy and happy Every Day!
看到此信息的人轉發給朋友 , 祝你的朋友們都是快樂健康 ~

BaD hABBIt

M developing such bad habit from time to time. It is now becoming the worst habbit of all...'ve been told to control myself, but doch chea ke men lerng te. Kommattana?

I will try to reduce it bit by bit...and hope that thing around me ll keep me bz, well of course not the things that i don feel like doing, (like what i have been asked to do for a while already, and it is not over yet), but thing that should bring me more progress, esp on my STUDY and my THOUGHT....

09/09/09

Lovely, isn't it? 090909 sounds real good!
Hope it is a very inspiring day for me, my family, friends and all...

Wishes every1 including me "ALL De BesT!!!"

With Love,

TD

*Sept*

Many things to be waiting for in this SEPT.....

wishes wishes...

REliEF but Uhmmm

If RelIEF? Y But? Y Uhmmm? Well,,,,i feel rather relief for the result i got, my wish has been replied!
The But and Uhmm is that some of my friends' result is not that satisfactory!
Su Su Su everybody....including me *.*

Give your 100%

A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed. The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised. That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story: If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc., Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully. Credit is given to Waruna fwd mail.

About me: have i ever given sb my 100% of anything? Well, i don't know. Yet i think m guilty of myself of getting mad when i think i already give my 100%, yet the receiver makes me feel that my 100% means 0%. However, it is good to give rather never. (s.times i am so mean that i really don't want to give out even 1%. It totally depends on the circumstances or the receiver. Guilty...sigh)

Consultation fee (in kind only)

Consultation Agreement

This is the list of items for any FRIEND who request for consultation from TD:
- New vase
- New mug
- Cake
- Chocolat (near Royal Palace)
- Coffee-plus or T&C
- Candy (no milk)
- To be cont’d .....
- Upon request (anytime, and no maturity)


To be received by TD + Bong Ny + Polin + Tom
Sign: v70 (My first client to be applied)

Date: 23/03/2009
Witness: Bong Ny, A Polin (called a Chrech), A Tom, Nita

"Undecided"

“First you say you do, and then you don’t. And then you say you will, and then you won’t. You’re undecided now, so what are you gonna do?”

A very interesting quote, isn't it?? Yet, undecided is somehow better than decided but DON'T DO. hmmm...that's the trap i always fall in.

Got this quote from any article, Missing the Target With $700 Billion, by Alan S. Blinder.

Cheers,

M back, then what??

have disappeared for more than 10days... What have i achieved?

I have done this things,,but what are the results?

03-Dec-08 F8INT Audit and Assurance ---worried
04-Dec-08 F9 Financial Management ---also worried
09-Dec-08 F7INT Financial Reporting ---worried as well,,,

Yah,,y don't i free myself from this worrysome exams??? since it is over, let the examiners care for it...lolz....

I can say, but hard to control...not just hard, but out of control...phew ~~

Today, come back to work, have to wake up early, but arrive at the office,,,,well,,,my officemate can imagine,,,empty,,,empty head, empty work, empty,,,,

But at least m glad that i have plenty of mails from plenty of friends to read...Thks all for this...

Here, one nice story:

A professor stood before his Philosophy class and had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar.
He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full.
They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full.
The students responded with a unanimous "yes."
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
"The golf balls are the important things - yur God, family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions - things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
"The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car.
"The sand is everything else--the small stuff.
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
"The same goes for life. "If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play with your children.
"Take time to get medical checkups.
"Take your partner out to dinner.
"Play another 18.
"There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
"Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter.
"Set your priorities.
"The rest is just sand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked.
"It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a cup of coffee with a friend."
Please share this with someone you care about.

Love,

222 Posts

φŕΐñcëςς TælΞ
222 Posts, last published on Nov 7, 2008

oh ho,,,i just noticed that i had 222 posts already. Yet between Nov7 to Nov25, i have no post at all? What is the problem???? The only answer is: ExAm is coming coming soon. Approaching me on 3,4,9 Dec....N by now m not ready yet............plz plz plz,,, (if u r my friends, i know u would understand what i am requesting right now!!!!)

All the best to Më TD, and to all examinëë....

Pink Lovers,,,,Pink Garden

Pink Garden,,,,,,,CaN aNy One NoT lOvE tHiS pInKy GaRden???? LoVe it nas.....Y do i miss this Place while i was in Hokkaido?? oH my...cuz i went there during winter...but, hmmm even during spring of my time, i had no chance to visit any garden like this te....kamsot nas :(

Y? & Y? & y?

Can i not answer this question for sometimes? It is supposed that what i am doing, i have my reason, but it is not always the case that i should tell the whole world of what exactly it is...

P.S. most of the time, my reason seems silly and irrational, some said. But it is my reason!!! so acceptable or not is one thing. Use feeling to judge is not always right, but i do believe in my feeling ('',)